Continued from 2 posts below

I went to dinner with the girl last night but I didn’t say anything at dinner since she had a friend there and I didn’t want to embarrass her (and it was already a bit awkward seeing her not after 1 month, but she is even hotter than I remember--which is damn hot).

Instead, I brought it up on the subway ride back. I said that if we are in a real relationship we need to see each other more since the last few weeks don’t cut it. My suggestion was that we could set a regular day (Wednesday was my suggestion) that I can run out to Linkou and meet her for dinner as a way to see her more. Nothing fancy really, just a meal then go back home but it would let us to see more of each other. Not asking too much here.

She was both taken aback and less than thrilled. She didn’t give me an answer and instead said she would think it over. The feeling I got was that my travelling to Linkou would intrude on whatever she has going up there (another dude?).

When I got home I emailed her and basically said: if we are in a relationship it means we actually have to spend time together and work to make time for one another. If we don’t and just want to change our facebook status and call it done then it’s pointless. My view was that it is no longer a real relationship so why should we continue to call it what it isn’t?

I was able to talk with her a little bit on MSN before I went to bed. She asked if I still like her, yes I still do. But I told her my feeling was being in a relationship with someone you like but never see is kinda pointless. She then told me something “bad” had recently happened to her but then didn’t respond to any messages asking what.

Unless this “bad” thing is pretty convincing and she can agree to see me more then there is no use being in a relationship. I’ll still be friends with her and think she is cool and really hot but to me there is no use being in a relationship with someone who seems to have minimal desire to see you.